Guy Rant: Should've Been Expecting One of These Eventually

I'm convinced that guys possess a special talent.  What is this talent?
Somehow, guys have some way of getting into your head and finding out when you're getting on perfectly well without him.  When you're happy, and your life is great, and you're just about over him, he knows. Don't ask me how, but he does.  And then at this peak moment of greatness, he may text, or call, or Facebook you a message that, even if meant innocently, can take you off of that high in a heartbeat.

Can someone please tell me how guys know this stuff? Especially when he doesn't even have you on Facebook, and you haven't talked to him in weeks, so there's really not much of a way for him to find out exactly how well and great you're doing.  Like, do they just get this intuition or something?  Some little voice in the back of their head that's all like, 

"She seems to be doing pretty well... Text her and tell her you miss her, and screw it up."

And then the girl just sits there in the same position with the same mind-effing, confused feelings she possessed about a month ago.
And then she writes a blog post about it, because she really just does not know what to do about it anymore.

I typically don't like posting stuff like this on here, but it has gotten to the point that I am just beginning to strongly dislike the male species.  Sorry to any guys potentially reading this if you get offended, but all guys are the same.  This is the fourth consecutive guy who has messed with my head immensely, and possibly just use me, and I keep trying to get away from guys who do that, but it's at the point where I'm convinced that all guys are just like that.  And if you want to argue that they're not, then I guess I'm just attracted to assholes. Which needs to stop ASAP.

I have never felt this strongly about a guy before, and I honestly don't even know what exactly that feeling even is. Good? Bad? Flat out pissed? No idea. Part of me wants to keep him in my life, but I feel like an  even bigger part just wants him out of it completely. Which one do you choose when you're at the point that a regular friendship is not a possible option? Cause we tried that, and I ended up going with the latter of just not talking to him completely. And then today happened. And now I'm right back where I'm started.

Where is that one guy who is supposed to prove to me they're not all the same?

I'm patiently waiting for you.